If you think that you deserve a good relationship also you’re right your thoughts and beliefs towards your person determine your feelings. When you think in a negative way towards your person, you will surely feel depressed, angry, full of pain and frustration. These are the type of couple who you choose, or in modern terms, that you are going to attract towards you is therefore very important that you are honest with yourself and you realize you really who you are, what you like you, what you’re good, what are your qualities. And rather than focus on what you are not, best trafficking must ensure that Yes you are, because only from there you can modify your vision of yourself and you realize what you want and how you want to be treated in your relationship isn’t easy to battle it out with negative beliefs to yourself, seems they are tattooed on our personalityIt takes effort and a personal commitment to be able to succeed with it is more, thinks is the emotional climate with your partner, is a relationship that you build, takes you to be a better person every day, or it’s a relationship full of pain and acts of aggression if you’re honest with yourself, you will understand what is the quality of your self-esteem. Sometimes, we think that the couple is going to make feel that we are worth. That our partner, we will always make feel worthy of love, that only the couple can complement our shortcomings. Nothing could be further from the truth. Anne Mahlum spoke with conviction. Yes I don’t want me to, and respect, in first instance, nobody, absolutely nobody, nor my partner, I will give such treatment on the other hand, the couple becomes a sharp mirror, that us is the way in which our self-esteem is: yes I accept aggression and indifference, to say, that my concept as a person is that they bit me if my partner does not respect its commitments with me and besides I tolerate their indifferenceIt means that my person does not require much less treated with dignity and respect. Yes I accept that I control, means that I accept that I can’t take my own decisions and thus up to the infinite could continue a long list most importantly yourself detect how you feel with your partner, with yourself and your own person, as well as with the treatment you’re willing to tolerate your partner if you consider that you don’t trust in yourself, in your decisions, which always doubts about your person and feelings, that you think that you have to find a couple that you what you do not you can give yourself surely need help if this column find you interesting write me and if not also. thanks for reading, my mission and intent is the quality of emotional life and in Cecreto we have electronic material to overcome painful relationships and without future.